Maybe I'm just not used to memory foam but the mattress sinks in a bit too much. In fact sometimes i think it's better without the pillow so that your body doesn't sink in too far from where you head is!! It also gets really hot at night (since you're sort of wrapped by this mattress) and my back still hurts in the morning! My boyfriend kind of hates the mattress too. It'd be better if it was a bit more dense so that we don't sink in too much. It's also really uncomfortable to sit on so if you like to sit and work on your bed, this is not for you. It's good value for what it is, and maybe its just my preference but I prefer the traditional mattresses better.