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Flatware Buying Guide

Flatware Buying Guide

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Setting the table requires a good set of flatware. And while choosing a design will be the fun part of shopping for flatware, the metal it's made of will affect the flatware's cost, durability, and maintenance. Here's what you need to think about when you're shopping for a flatware set.
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Buying Flatware:

Choose Your Design

Choose flatware to match your personal style and complement your dinnerware. Flatware sets with scrollwork and lots of details offer a traditional look, while flatware with clean lines has a contemporary look. Ceramic or wood handles will give you an even more specific look that may appeal to you. You may want to have a set of casual flatware as well as a set of formal flatware. You will also want to consider the weight or “heft” of your flatware. This comes down to personal preference: Some people like heavier silverware, and others like lighter flatware. Be aware of flatware that is too thin. Cheap flatware is so thin that it can bend and break.

Think about How Many Place Settings You’ll Need

Flatware is often sold by the place setting. A five-piece place setting usually consists of a dinner fork, a salad fork, a dinner knife, a teaspoon, and a tablespoon. A 20-piece flatware set usually has four place settings. A 45-piece flatware set generally includes eight place settings and five serving pieces. You’ll want to have enough flatware to serve eight to 12 people, plus a few more in case a piece is dropped during the meal and your guest needs a clean replacement. You may want to buy a large set if you plan on having several guests.

Stainless Steel Flatware

  • Use: Stainless steel flatware is well suited for everyday use. Silverware is often saved for special occasions.Materials. You may see a few numbers listed in the description of stainless steel flatware.
  • Materials: Stainless steel marked as 18/10 is the highest quality. The number means that the alloy contains 18 percent chromium and 10 percent nickel. The chromium makes the metal rust- and stain-resistant, while the nickel gives it luster and shine. The rest of the metal is composite steel, which makes the flatware strong.
  • Care: Rinse off food residue as soon after the meal as possible. Wash your stainless steel flatware by hand the first few times you use it to condition it. Afterwards, you can machine wash it. Be careful not to use too much detergent; this can cause rust to form. If rust does appear, clean your stainless steel flatware with an all-purpose metal cleaner. You generally do not need to polish stainless flatware.


  • Use: Silverware is often saved for special occasions.
  • Materials: Silver flatware is either made of sterling silver (925 parts silver to 75 parts copper or another metal) or it is silver-plated metal. Sterling silver is usually more expensive, but silver-plated can still be very good quality, especially if it has been double- or triple-plated.
  • Care: Always rinse food residue off it after use, but do not leave it soaking. Although you can wash most sterling silverware in the dishwasher, hand washing is recommended. If you do choose to machine wash your silverware, remove it before the heat-drying cycle and hand dry it. When it’s completely dry, store it in a case lined with an anti-tarnish material; many silverware sets are sold in this type of case. Silverware will need to be polished occasionally with a silver polish.

Decide Which Pieces You Need

Although very formal meals include more flatware pieces, your formal meals will most likely leave out specific-use tools, such as the lemon fork or the chocolate spoon. You will most likely only need the following flatware pieces to create a formal table setting:

Basic Flatware Pieces

Forks: A dinner fork is the standard-sized fork. The salad fork is slightly smaller than the dinner fork. A dessert fork is about the same length as the salad fork but may be narrower. The fish fork is about the length of a dinner fork but is often narrower. An oyster or shellfish fork is very small and usually has only two tines.

Knives: The dinner knife is the standard-sized knife. The butter knife is much smaller and usually has a rounded tip. A fish knife is about the same size as a dinner knife, but it has a special tip for undressing a fish that is served with head, skin, or bones. A steak knife has an extra-sharp, usually serrated, blade.

Spoons: Generally, a soup spoon and a dessert spoon are the only spoons required. A demitasse spoon may be brought out with a cup and saucer for coffee, though using the dessert spoon is considered acceptable to stir within all but the most formal settings. Different soup spoons are available for cream soups or broths, but a standard soup spoon is usually enough. A tablespoon or place spoon may be set on a formal table if the meal requires it, and they are often used for an informal meal where no soup is served. A teaspoon is only required when there will be tea served.

Serveware: Service flatware usually includes a soup ladle, a large serving spoon, a large serving fork, a pie or cake wedge, and a cheese knife. Be sure that you have the correct serving utensils for the foods you regularly serve.