We purchased an engagement ring to go with this one. It was not a set, but goes wonderfully with it. if your lady would rather have more of a larger engagement ring, then this is a good size for a wedding band. It fits nicely against the stones and because it's curved, it fits. If she has average sized hands and fingers, then this would not be ostentanious or tacky looking. Classy and elegant. May buy another to go on the other side of the engagement ring so will look like a wrap!!!