I got this book 7yrs ago when i lost my boyfriend, i was only 18. I didnt understand or know how to put into words how i felt because i had never lost anyone before him. This book helped me grieve n forgive. Now my cousin, 22 just lost her husband n im passing it on to her. I hope that she will find confort in this book just like i did. Needless to say im going to get myself another copy because it is such an excellent book.