The actual "showy" part is very pretty. The chain it comes on completely ruin the entire look. I'm keeping it, however it's at the jewelers getting a nicer chain that matches better & can be seen. Also make sure you check the length on that tiny & certain to break chain, it is to long to do it justice even if it were thicker. The only way I would recommend this to a friend is they had the money to invest in a thicker chain. It is nicer in the picture because you can't see the chain.