My boyfriend got me this necklace as a surprise, just-because gift. It is now my absolute favorite piece of jewelry. I wear it everyday, and after a month, I see that it is capable of withstanding the everyday wear and tear. I love the shape of the amethyst and the white gold chain is actually very glittery, more than you would think for 10k. Have gotten many compliments on it...definitely can wear all the time. LOVE IT!!!It is a beautiful cut and the chain is the perfect length. HIGHLY RECOMMEND for anyone, whether woman buying it for herself or for another boyfriend who wants to make his girl's day. (Trust me, it will).