I gave my wife one of these and she seemed to enjoy it (she may have been faking to make me feel better however) but either way I enjoyed myself. This product has a sturdy shaft and really stands up to the penetration. It never bends or lets you down. I recommend that every fisherman as well as every man in general should get one of these. This product is fun to use with friends or alone. It really gets the job done and leaves you with a satisfied feeling. Get one for your wife, she will appreciate it. It's so much fun, ones you get your hands on your own, you won't want to put it down!