This toy is high quality. It's weighty and smooth. Easy to clean-- boilable! The Toy Fluid that comes in the box is by far the best lube I've ever used and I'm going to buy a bottle. It is a little bit hard to learn to use vigorously, (you're working against gravity) but I've read that panties with a hole poked through makes a great make-shift harness. Luckily I have flexible enough hips to be able to use the bed as support. Incredibly pleasureable to use with two people and a great toy for one. (You really can jack off "your cock"!) My boyfriend and I both love it and if it weren't so taboo I would definitely tell all my friends.