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The Caregiving Wife's Handbook: Caring for your Seriously Ill Husband, Caring for Yourself (Paperback)

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    A month after proposing marriage, Diana Denholm's husband was diagnosed with colon cancer and later congestive heart failure. Following a heart transplant several of her husband's body systems began failing forcing Diana to become his primary care...

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    A month after proposing marriage, Diana Denholm's husband was diagnosed with colon cancer and later congestive heart failure. Following a heart transplant several of her husband's body systems began failing forcing Diana to become his primary caregiver for more than a decade. The Caregiving Wife's Handbook is a step-by-step communication guide to help women maintain emotional, physical and financial health in their unique role as caregivers to their dying husbands.

    Women are suffering physical, emotional and financial burnout as the United States' leading caregivers. Of the 65 million caregivers in the U.S., 66% are women, and these numbers will only increase as the population ages. And while statistics and resources abound for caregivers in general, very little exists for women in their unique role as caregivers to their dying husbands.

    Traditionally, caring for a dying husband has been seen as a "wifely duty." Most wives donít label themselves, and arenít labeled by others, as caregivers. But advances in medical technology are making this distinction an imperitive since women are under more stress as caregivers than at any other time in history. Although there are generic similarities in caretaking, caregiving for a dying husband is distinctly different, and the longer the dying process, the more complex the problems.

    When a husband is in the process of dying for many months or years the experience is quite different than a husband's sudden death. On top of dealing with the tragedy, the wife must figure out how to make life work. Sometimes a woman is married to the love of her life and sometimes not. Some marriages strengthen, while others disintegrate. Some women are in abusive relationships and find the abuse continues, and even increases, during these times, while others find, much to their surprise, that they become the abusers. Still some will start or increase substance abuse and others will have affairs to get by.

    The Caregiving Wife's Handbook aims to help women get through their husbands' illness and death with compassion, emotionally whole and without regret by helping them communicate clearly?and in steps?about issues affecting this unique caregiving relationship.

    Without specific direction, many women find themselves over the top with stress as their lives change radically. As a board certified medical psychotherapist and primary caregiver, Diana Denholm recognized the need for a step-by-step process to help women communicate with their husbands to avoid irreparable damage and regret.

    In The Caregiving Wife's Handbook, you will learn:


    To ask questions you may not realize you need to ask

    The issues that bother you and a method for categorizing them

    What you should and shouldn't discuss with your husband

    How to make and prepare for a date to talk about difficult topics

    What to do if your husband won't talk

    To create "understandings" with your husband

    How to deal with his family

    You will also learn survival tips from the case histories of Joyce, Fran, Tina, Jean, Susan, and Mary. Their experiences will help you:


    Choose roles you should take and those you should avoid

    Understand what is ?normalĒ in what youíre experiencing and feeling

    Take care of yourself so you can survive and even have fun

    Implement doís and avoid doníts to make your life simpler

    Balance with greater ease

    Other topics addressed are:


    Sex life/intimacy

    Current and future finances

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    ISBN 9780897936057
    Author Denholm, Diana B., Ph.D.
    Genre FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / Death, Grief, Bereavement
    Format Paperback
    Pages 198
    Publisher Date 2012-01-03 00:00:00.0
    Publisher Hunter House
    Copyright Year 2012
    Height 8.0 in
    Wdth 5.0 in
    Thickness 0.5 in
    Unit weight 0.36 lb
    Language English
    Subtitle Caring for your Seriously Ill Husband, Caring for Yourself
    Audience General/trade

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