This book is excellent for the person wanting to stand up for themselves, passive, afraid to say no or be their authentic self. It is a must read for anyone that's social and that includes all human beings. After I read this book I saw how my own relations with people throughout my life made up who I am today and how I can undo that. This book allowed me to see that most of our fear of being who we are is caused by outside influences. This book should be a Bestseller and is an excellent disection of control. AFTER READING YOU WILL NEVER LET ANYONE TELL YOU WHO YOU ARE EVER AGAIN!
This book is absolutely necessary if you struggle with controlling people in your relationships. It clearly and methodically demystifies the system and structure of these relationships. She is hopeful, empowering, and non-blaming. This book has changed my life.